I dont consider myself a nerd,and if you saw me,and said it,well one of us wouldnt be vertical too long :twisted: .Not directed at you Shane,just anybody that would say my interest in these wonderful animals qualifies me as a nerd :shock: .Now some people usually consider me asocial and aggressive,confrontational,but I am really nice.Now about the time issue,it is about the dialogue,the interest that is likeminded.This place can be addicting,because it has all the stimuli a true geckophile could want.I think if you need to balance your time for the integrity of a relationship,you should,if thats what matters to you,most.Nothing wrong with that.Maybe count the hours of how much you spend with your lady verses the time with geckophile and your geckos,because she lumps the 2 together,no matter how understanding she is.Only time will tell.Good luck Bro.