hi everybody, I'm amy, I am new to this forum. I purchased a golden gecko abut 2 weeks ago. I have read that they are skittish and hate being handled bu I have also read that they can easily become docile and enjoy it. my extended family has a goldie that absolutely loves being handled and actually gets stressed if he is not handled frequently. Pascal, (my goldie) is very wild and was never held before I got her. She is very fast but stresses without touch (goes black, hides, becomes almost lethargic). When I hold her she fights me. She bites, poops, pees and squirms but she is not stressed. Her color is amazing she relaxes quite quickly and when I put her back (i allow her to walk off of my hand) she stays on me for a while and eventually walks off but does not hide, has significantly better color and will watch me follow my voice etc. My question is, am I doing the right thing? After I hold her she is happy, healthy, less stressed and way more active but I cannot help but feel like I am doing something wrong because she fights with me in the beginning. HELP