Glad to share some positive experiences.
I should also point out that this was during a "big freeze" here in the UK, where March was freezing over with lots of snow (this is a big deal here even though these days it happens every damn year haha). We had some trouble maintaining good ambient temps in the the middle of the thermal gradient and near the bottom. Of course, when the house is about 15 degrees or even less, it's pretty hard to get up to the 27-33 we maintain at the moment. We tried all sorts like putting tin foil over the mesh but in the end we just had to blast the house with central heating (big bill came through last month!!). While there are actually two heat spots side by side - non UVB Edison heatspot and infrared emitter, they don't always like to sit together, so one of them was going to hog the heat in the cold. This is no problem during summer/autumn. They're basking noticeably less and never trying to bask at the same time.
I also noticed darkening of the skin on the male, but that might just because the male was in the shade half of the time. Hiding in the cave was bad because it was definitely affecting his exposure, although it could also have been a tough shed, also due to stress.
Lots of foliage is really important. Not so much for humans but so that the pair can "screen" themselves from one anther. The exo terra suction cup novelty stuff is great because you can cover the glass on the left and right sides and they hide under that where you can still see them.
Currently the female likes to sit horizontally in some upright bamboo 90% of the time (I think this was established years ago with previous owners), and the male is usually stuck to the front or side glass at least a foot away from the female, preferably well hidden behind dense foliage. He'll often feed from this same spot.
So the territory is pretty well established and you still get them meandering around in odd places in the evenings mostly. They normally return to the same places. I think perhaps while the female was gravid she was just being a bit of a bitch really, I can't think of a better way to describe it. She feeds furiously and viciously, tearing crickets in half and ALWAYS going for the male's feed as well. She wears the trousers alright, and maybe wanted to expand her territory.
I love studying this sort of thing as it gives them an abundance of character, but certainly it is important too for the wellbeing of the animals
I'd say the previous bout escalated over just a few days, and we did the rearrangement just about 3 days after the chasing started happening. You really need to keep an eye on the behaviour. Being new to keeping them we thought the honking was only a cute courtly thing - how wrong we were!!