the problem is I'm not too confident in the capabilities of vets sometimes. i wish i had a vet friend
Hope your wheeleri is doing better man.
I totally hear you about vets, the combination of someone who sees few (or no) reptiles and the mindset of a doctor "authority figure" is often a terrible combination. I have had/heard of vets prescribing absolutely medieval courses of treatment based on what I can only assume they read in a book published 40-50 years ago.....or just made up on the spot
Just working with reptiles for a while gives most folks considerable insight and experiences. Especially if you have a chance to work/talk with a vet who does herps specifically. Remember many "all-pet" vets barely had a few weeks on herps in their training (at best). While they often (usually) have a great theoretical knowledge of how to go about treating an animal, their practical knowledge with herps is often near zero. My vet friends actually call me to get my thoughts about fish and herp related things. I mostly try to help from a husbandry perspective which 90% of the time is why they are seeing an animal in the first place. It's great to be able to build some currency in helping them out for when I need help myself. One thing I will say about every vet I know, they are nearly all smart as a tack (harder to get into than med school) and the best ones are willing/able to ask advice when their knowledge comes up short. And they are very loose with info as in you will learn tons just chatting them up.
Anyway, yes its time to get some friends who are vets Oli

Isn't there a leo breeder who is a DVM in your neck of the woods? See if the NYTTS has any herp friendly vets either amongst its members or by referral....I am almost sure there are at least a few who are members or were when I was a member anyway. They might be willing to check out your knobbie just for the novelty of seeing one

Could also just be worth just paying the visit fee if you source a competent herp vet for future advice, especially if you get a good one you can pump for info.
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