OK, so for the purpose of education within this thread topic, I'll expound on the idea that a quarantine was not too late and really a good idea.
Even at this point separation would be beneficial to reduce the treat of parasite transmission. After which, cleaning the enclosure would remove the link in several GI tract pathogen's reproductive cycles through the stool of the female.
Now for the misgivings within this post. We see on a regular basis advise requests for help with, and postings about a new Tokay. Sadly, the new Tokay owner is rarely prepared to deal with a wild caught imported Tokay and may have been misguided as to the healthy husbandry regarding having a happy Tokay.
In most cases the new Tokay owner is in for a long, drawn out, sometimes expensive and usually unpleasant experience trying to keep their animal alive. The results are rarely positive and most folks are jaded after the experience.
So maybe one can see our sadness and frustration when it looks like we might possibly be in for another bad ending for an imported Tokay and it's would be mate. You would be hard pressed to find another more dedicated keeper, breeder and trainer of Tokay than Ms. Kita. And for her to unselfishly share her many years of experience, love and commitment, for the sake of this species with anyone is a true testament to her willingness to teach folks for the betterment of the animal.
I'm sorry you felt attacked in some way but she is not alone in our fervent commitment and passion to help Tokay owners better understand their charge. (I don't have over 300 Tokay because I think they will make me rich.)
We are hoping to redirect your coarse to help you possibly evert the same, and in my case very costly mistake, that most of us have made early on. (I lost a pair of very expensive albino Tokay because I believed the new animal was a healthy long term captive and did not require a quarantine period. I wish I had the truly expert advice of these good folks in my ear way back then. I might have not lost $1,500 in Tokay and much more importantly, we might have albino Tokay as captive bred today. I've never been able to acquire another pair like them in the 3 years since!)
I hope your Tokay do well and wish you the best of luck! I'd rather be lucky than good any day, but in the absence of luck, I want to be the best I can be by remaining teachable.
All the best,
Michael
Michael