We're only trying to help you, not 'condemn' you. The more experienced keepers here are only trying to help you avoid making the mistakes that they have run into in the past, and they only want what's best for the animal. And just because people here offer suggestions and help doesn't mean that you have to listen to everything you say; like Riverside mentioned it's really up to you to decide what is best for your animal, and your own experiences to judge what is right. Just take what people have to offer with a grain of salt and ultimately make the decision on your own.
Also understand that people will not always agree with your practice. Believe me, I've had my fair share of panic days when I thought I was raising my geckos completely wrong. But in the end I've gradually learned what I think is best and I've just kinda learned to not let people get to me so much, while still considering what they have to offer. And hey, if you have something that you personally think really works, back it up in detail and share it with the community. It may prove to help others more than you know.
Please don't take so much offense to us, we're only trying to help. And if you think you don't need anymore help, then help others. That's what places like this forum are for.