Like I told my boyfriend, as long as the fecal comes back good, I think it's time to stop worrying about her. She's been eating mealworms the past three days (not much interest in roaches yet) and we've actually been seeing her eat. She misses a lot when she strikes but she still keeps going 
She's very wary of us right now since there's been a lot of hassle for her lately so it's time to leave her alone for a while and slowly reintroduce ourselves. She's still got some stuck shed on her belly but there's only a little and we can't get it off so we're gonna have to leave it to her.
I'm not sure exactly what's worked but it must be a combination of moving her into a different room from the male, rehydration and sunlight
She's very wary of us right now since there's been a lot of hassle for her lately so it's time to leave her alone for a while and slowly reintroduce ourselves. She's still got some stuck shed on her belly but there's only a little and we can't get it off so we're gonna have to leave it to her.I'm not sure exactly what's worked but it must be a combination of moving her into a different room from the male, rehydration and sunlight