Oh my gosh. Well, with deepest respect, I see nothing wrong with enjoying a pet especially if the pet seems to respond. All of my pets become part of my family. I would not dream of putting one of my children in an enclosure and just observing them every so often. And I do not do this with any of my other pets either. I have three dogs, a box turtle and this gecko. I interact with all five animals on a daily basis, multiple times a day; just as I would any member of my family who was in the house with me all day long. Fish are a different matter -- they cannot be handled. geckos and turtles, dogs, cats, rats, mice, gerbils, guinea pigs, hampsters, etc. all can be handled and I beleive enjoy the human loving contact. But you are completely entitled to your opinion and I appreciate that you shared that with all of us. I just think you might be missing out on some great bonding experiences!!